Feelings are not supposed to be logical. It would only make you more confuse & lost.
A lot of people ask me about my decision on being single all this while. Even my boss at work asked me about it. He could not comprehend the idea of someone as gorgeous & attractive [overkill. i know.] like me do not have someone special for quite a long time. Well, not really that long actually.
I'm sure many people will agree with me that after so many failed attempt at creating a happily-ever-after relationship, the feelings about the whole thing would eventually become stagnant in a sense of giving it the lowest priority in life. Most of the time, life is not just about being in love with someone [except your family]. And it's not just because of a bad past relationship either. Something that did not work out like how you want it should not necessarily viewed as a mistake or a bad thing. Things just happen sometimes. Either people simply have a change of heart or it's time for the other person to take on a new chapter in his/her life.
At one point, accumulate mix-feelings & the experience one had over the whole love-crush-heart break-infatuation-lust-vulnerable-stupidity thing will somehow make the person so over it that all he/she want to do is sit back & let life & time take over & decide everything. When you are ready, then you will. There's no need to push it or go looking for the 'thing' like some treasure hunt you used to participate in school & ended up settling for second best. To make do with what you have. Something you think you want but does not really sure if it's something mutual.
That is why i look at every encounter & moments with someone as a gift & my turn of sharing. Whether you realize it or not, each and every people that we get to meet help shape our mind, heart & life no matter how short the shared time is.
So, try never to look at people around you with just tiny regards but rather as an individual that contribute to your chain of energy, existence & happiness, which most of the time we never realize first hand but true anyway.
A lot of people ask me about my decision on being single all this while. Even my boss at work asked me about it. He could not comprehend the idea of someone as gorgeous & attractive [overkill. i know.] like me do not have someone special for quite a long time. Well, not really that long actually.
I'm sure many people will agree with me that after so many failed attempt at creating a happily-ever-after relationship, the feelings about the whole thing would eventually become stagnant in a sense of giving it the lowest priority in life. Most of the time, life is not just about being in love with someone [except your family]. And it's not just because of a bad past relationship either. Something that did not work out like how you want it should not necessarily viewed as a mistake or a bad thing. Things just happen sometimes. Either people simply have a change of heart or it's time for the other person to take on a new chapter in his/her life.
At one point, accumulate mix-feelings & the experience one had over the whole love-crush-heart break-infatuation-lust-vulnerable-stupidity thing will somehow make the person so over it that all he/she want to do is sit back & let life & time take over & decide everything. When you are ready, then you will. There's no need to push it or go looking for the 'thing' like some treasure hunt you used to participate in school & ended up settling for second best. To make do with what you have. Something you think you want but does not really sure if it's something mutual.
That is why i look at every encounter & moments with someone as a gift & my turn of sharing. Whether you realize it or not, each and every people that we get to meet help shape our mind, heart & life no matter how short the shared time is.
So, try never to look at people around you with just tiny regards but rather as an individual that contribute to your chain of energy, existence & happiness, which most of the time we never realize first hand but true anyway.
11 comments:
interesting.....buli tulis novel sda ba kau ni claire...hehe
yep setiap org yg kita jumpa or org yg kita pernah ada r/ship mesti ada +ve things behind it kan....tp ada jgk org cakap bila sda dlm r/ship few years dan nda jd kawin dia bilang wasted saja....bagi saya tidak sama skali....kita patut ambil tu sbg pengalaman dan pembelajaran yg mahal....pengalaman dlm pelbagai bentuk ba....haha
sweetie~, agreed. every single person is valuable in our life :)
yes darling, one day when u meet the right person, u'll just know..no need to try too hard, just stay happy and cheer every single second of ur life =)
Very beautifully written and very captivating..
I wish I could write a piece as good as this...
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Sweetie, kalau ada novel sy kluar sy kasi free kau satu k..hahahaha mm..btl tu apa kau ckp. i used to think like that ba. like i've wasted my years on someone who's not worth it. tapi skang, come to think of it..so many lesson learn, n i wont have it any other way... :)
Axxa, :) same goes to u k....
KC, honestly i didn't knw what to write earlier...no idea..but when something comes from your heart...it just flow naturally kot...hehehe
Don't think. Just do it. Then it can make duit.
pukul nu no ?
Pegawai khalwat, :) are u talking about blogging? if yes, yep...i'm going to try to be more active..:)
Anak Antu, pkul 1 no.hahaha
emotion is a variable which means variables has a tendency to change. but logic on the the other hand helps to make a variable into something constant giving us an insight into a more apprpriate course of action or behaviour to be taken...:)
my word veri is 'antlet' muahahahaha
hahaha...si Jerry. The word veri is very interesting oo kan...:D
Mentang2 kau baru lepas mabuk bincang psl sains...skg ko mo matematik sda...kau msh mabuk kali ni..haha Neway, sometimes if you depends too much on logic in things concerning emotion / feelings, the more confusing the whole things is. ;)
no....it's more confusing if you don't depend on logic at all because logic is not abstract :).
well...sometimes logic works and sometimes it doesn't i guess. ;) so..i agree with u on depending with it once in a while. ;)
p/s we women feed on the drama u knw...hahahha but not most of the time & not most of the women la.. but a few here and there would make life more interesting, no?
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