Monday, February 2, 2009

February - The Month of Love

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love’s only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s ‘perfect person.’ It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

Never say ‘I love you’ if you don’t care.

Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there.

Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.

Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.

It's cruel to let someone fall in love with you when you do not intend to catch them fall.

Love is also not about ‘it’s your fault’, but ‘I’m sorry.’ Not ‘where are you’, but ‘I’m right here.’ Not ‘how could you’, but ‘I understand.’ Not ‘I wish you were’, but ‘I’m thankful you are.’

How to be in love? Fall but don’t stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea about how you feel.

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth it. If he isn’t worth it now he’s not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go…..


Happy February y'all......have a lovey dovey month! ;) [chuckling]


7 comments:

Wel^Beiolman said...

"...love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea about how you feel..." yg ni setuju tp it does not really hurt unless she/he knows your feeling still she/he makes dont know about that special feeling you have towards he/she....well, this is something everyone should be aware i guess, of not taking advantage and nor making it as an excuse to not be friend anymore....be grateful to have someone falling for you...hehe..

"If he isn’t worth it now he’s not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go….." how would you know he/she isn't worth? A question that nobody could give better answer I reckon...it is the willingness to accept and to make it works rather than thinking about he/she's worth...would you say you're that worthy to be his/hers?

Im no expert but perhaps, I do understand some of these 'theory' of being loved and to love...hehe...n

Claire said...

hehehhe....its just naturally ba tu wel...ada dia pny stage something like that...and then after some time everything wud be back to normal again...hehe anyway, kau tau ka mcmna rasa dia, u're head over heels with someone, tp kau tpaksa tgk sja tu org then pretend that there's nothing? ada mcm kana cucuk2 jg tu hati la...hahaha

kalau psl tu worth2....that was kind of a reminder for something in the past ba tu...n also to tell those that was having that kind of relationship now...lagipun, usually u'll knw if he/she is worth it after you have been with he/she...mana blh tau kalau belum cuba...;)

Dan, which one yg nicely said ni? hehe

sweetie~ said...

"It's cruel to let someone fall in love with you when you do not intend to catch them fall."

how do u stop someone from falling in luv with u? tiwas la dia siapa suruh...muahaha

Claire said...

hahaha....if u have no idea tia pa la ba kali...tp kalau ada sengaja di situ..kasi2 hope lagi..haha nda bgs tu utk kesihatan...hehhe

Wel^Beiolman said...

nasib lg sia inda kasi hope hope kan..layan macam besa sja seperti besa..haha...

sapa suru naik pokok ba tu.kalu pandai naik pandai turun la dia bilang..haha..

mimang inda buli stop ba tu claire...bukan di pinta tp suda di rencanakan oleh dia yg maha esa..hehe..

JerryInc said...

nice entry...:). guess wat your word verificatin is..'gynes' as in gyneacology muahahahaha

Claire said...

Wel, ya la. Gitu la tu.

Jerry, gete sja. hehe