Saturday, September 20, 2008

Reason..Season..Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


p/s I think Guzzy or Alex sent this last time in the bwoing2 loop & it brings great meaning to me..so my friends...please appreciate all those around you...
And to all the special person out there…everyone who’s been in my life..
thank you for being a part of my journey, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

claire..sia rasa mcm sia inda masuk dalam any kategory la...haha..tp yg reason mcm menarik la...ko perlu kwn tuk minum beer..sia kasi kawan la..haha..tu la reason dia..bila suda hbs beer...balik ruma la...hehe..

Anonymous said...

...Sia rasa pun sia buli jadi reason saja kali ne...heheh...sama tulak tu yang dia bilang...

- to aid you physically - maksud dia klau ko ndada duit kunun trus sia yang kc pinjam ka tu...hahahaha...kalau bpinjam2 bulila...

Absolutely, friendship lasts forever and through the journey of time...

sia pun ada mau share juga ne sikit..benarkan sia mimbolotok kio claire...

Ada masa sia dulu2 la sia suka mementingkan diri - bila kawan mau bawa/ minta bawa kluar jalan - sia bagi alasan sibuk saja - ada mau buat d rumah - ada ini ada itu - kcian kawan2 sia, sampai sia kena gelar mau jadi sister caramelite ka tu yang bkurung saja tu...hehehe...

Tapi bila sia ingat balik kawan2 sia, capat2 sia insaf....jd skrg bila kawan mau bawa jalan2/ kluar rumah/ pangil tengah2 malam mau minta tulung...bukan men lagi sia kunun no.1 bah yang mau datang...bukan apa ...mengingatkan yg d reason sia masih bergairah mau idup adalah kawan2 juga.....

Kalu kawan2 blogger pula :)) the reason sia leh stay depan pc bejam2 sambil mimbolotok sana shout box kamurang...hahahah...

Anonymous said...

hahahhahahhaha.....

wel~ buli tahan jg kau kan jadi reason..ok la tu...kalau season nti ndada suda kalau suda limpas masa..kira ni reason buli cari anytime ni..eheh jd bila kita pny beer lg yg next? ahaha tp jgn la ba walk away..balik ruma blh la k..hehe

Nit..buli sja ba mo mimbolotok d cni ni..di alu2 kan..hehe kau offer mau jadi banker oo kan..bgs ni..nti sy kestau no acc bank sy aa..haha mm..bgs la kalau kau fikir gitu sda skg..senang hati ba jg kalau dpt tulung urang..kwn2 mesti mo ingat slalu..hehe jgn kau kasi lupa sy aa~ nti sy suru kau p kaingaran sana betapa baru kau tau..haha

Anonymous said...

claire..balik ruma sambung minum la ba tu..bukan walk away ba tu..haha..jd ko kasi confirm bila ko perlukan la..sia ok sja kalu weekend...janji fulus ko la..

Anonymous said...

Hahahahah....lucu ini...siap mau kc acc no..heheh...cisss sia suda kluar dari pertapaan ne...nda nejadi butul2.. tiada panggilan kali..hehehehe..

Lek kamu wel..kc dingar2 sja minum beer kunun ...bikin kepunan saja sama sia.. :))

Anonymous said...

haha..ngam la kalau balik ruma sja wel...nti buli dtg lg..haha

nit kau dtg cni la c wel membelanja tu..haha