Why?
For attempted physical & emotional harassment by a guy who've been tailing me everyday from work to my house for the past three weeks.
Yeah. You read me right. Someone scary was following me.
This is actually a very long story & i never thought of posting about it because that bastard is not worth even a second of my time.
But about a month now, he had been waiting for me in some junction near the company so that i will not be aware of his presence & will follow me closely until i reached my home which was never. I will drive around the housing area or stop in front of shops to get rid of him. I even shouted at him before to stop following me & to leave me alone.
"Awak boleh tak jangan kacau sy lagi? Tak faham2 bahasa ke?"
And he will try to form words from his mouth which i barely listen to everytime because i will raised the car window up before he get time to put his hand inside the car & open the door.
You have no idea how much all this recent event had made me feel. Sometimes i can't help from crying when i'm so frustrated because i can't get away from him but i wanted to go home but i can not let him know exactly where my house is or else something worse may even happen.
I really don't feel like sharing this. I don't want to think for even a second about it.
It's really scary & i'm not yet ready to lose my sanity.
Girls, be aware of these things & never to wait until it's too late.
37 comments:
mandak... you made a wise decision, making a police report. Rasa lah dia, mo mengikuti urang... and good enough ko tau number motor dia... i do agree with si mell f, buy a pepper spray. For your own safety. hehehehe
bha ngam lah ko bt report sudah ..aiks sa ingat the crazy guy is chinese..but the name showed diff.anyway take care lah...so apalah tu polis cakap?
ya la markie, nda tahan sda sy..buat apa mau tahan2 smpi nangis sendiri kn..sakit jiwa sy nti..sy trus drive direct p balai ba tu..dia p ikut skali dia nampak sy melencong masuk balai tau jg lari..sy nda perasan tu no motor dia apa semua sblm ni then colleague sy advice tgk plat no dia so senang mo buat report..mmg mau beli pepper spray la ni sy rasa..
Lex, mmg malay ba tu..sy sampai2 ja d balai kn..tu officer semua tgh duduk2 d luar ba tu...then sy park kreta btl2 depan durang duduk..then sy p tempat durang..durang tanya la..kenapa?...sy mau ckp nda dpt ckp ni...panas sda muka sy mau tahan mau tenangis...then durang tny la...accident? ragut?..etc...trus sy nangis trus durang cepat2 suru duduk..ok2..duduk dlu..tenang dlu dorang bilang...sy nangis la kijap..hahaha budu jg la kalau ingat..nda tahan ba sda tu..then sy report la..tu kata2 sana police report tu officer yg type tu...funny jg bm dia kan..hehe
actually lama sda sy mo report ba ni..tp sy terfikir jg kalau2 tu pulis nti won't take me seriously ni..nti dia bilang..ala tu org suka kau sja tu dia bilang..sm malas kna kasi main2 psl tu ba sb i feel differently kan..mcm mau tekanan perasaan sda kana kacau..org kasi main2 lagi..mmg sy nda suka la...tapi last2..report sja la..apa lg sy buli buat kn..huhu
ereeiii naik motor saja ka...klu dia naik merz ka bmw ka rela jgk sy kana ikut2....kekeke
btw,napa kau tidak mau dengar alasan dia ikut2 kau? mana tau dia mau bagi numbur ekor ka atau klu dia bilang dia minat sama kau.....tanya dia ko banyak duit ka? klu teda duit then u better get lost bilang....hahaha
ko bilang 5thn..haha..ko kenal ka sepa tu claire..dia anak billionaire sedang datang k simpang empat mau cari jodoh ba tu..hehe..
ko yg perasan kana ikut ba ni kali..hehe..good decision..
hahaaha...funny c sweetie..tu la ba kan..kin malu ja..ada hati..mmm..pnjg cerita dia ba ni sweetie...kin muntah jg mau cerita ni..kin panas...
sy try kasi pindik cerita la k...ni urang sama2 di kampus jg dlu..dr sana lagi, mmg gitu sda gaya..mau p becakap pun mau rapat2 kin gali dan rimas ni..buduh pny urang..tp mmg sy tia pernah layan la..kawan2 sy masa tu pun takut ba sm ni urang..gaya mmg mcm stalker la..mimang pun sda..dia tau tu semua no phone sy..email..tia tau mana dia dpt la...senang jg ba tu mau cari sb d kampus kn..then sy tia pernah layan jg..sudah brapa kali sy ckp bgs2....atau maki...atau meradang...
suda sy suru kwn2 & coursemate..c billy, henry, vincent, nadzrie..even kwn sy shah sama sharkk pun pernah sda berlakon sy tunang la apa la..nda peduli jg ni urang...kana maki kaw2 tu kwn sy cina c vincent pun masih nda pandai dgr ni...tapi masa tu ok lagi..sb ramai kawan..plg2 pun dia dpt ikut dari jauh sja...naa skg bila sendiri2 sda keja..tu pun sy tia tau mcmna dia blh tau sy keja d mana...makin menjadi2 la dia..kin takut ba org gni...ada masalah mental ni sy rasa...
satu yg sy plg nda blh terima kenyataan....dia confident btl kunun sy pun suka dia ni..stupid asshole btl la ni org..pandai lagi mo tegur2 kalau sy kluar sm kwn2 sy...kalau kluar sama dia nda pa kunun..pthuiii!! nsb baik sy nda pernah sanggup walau sekali pun kluar sm ni urang mcmna pun dia merayu...mati la sy kali...
bygkan la..mau 5tahun pny cerita ba ni...smpi tahap gni sy nda tahan sda la btl2...bygkan sja kalau sy stop d mana2 kedai sb mati la ba jg kalau pusing2 abis minyak sja kan..dia p ketuk2 tu cermin kereta..kuat lagi tu...sy tgk sebelah, dia p sebelah lagi ketuk2...alalala..mau sakit jantung sy tau...punya bikin takut...
tp sy malas jg kasi cerita urang ba ni..sb kena kasi main2 lagi ni kdg2...bilang kasi can la apa la...cuba sja la sm peminat setia la..adedei...saya tau durang main2...masalah dia yg sy suda rasa tekanan perasaan gitu lain ba rasa dia..sy tahan sja la...
so if anyone here wanna make fun of this...think twice la dlu..sy rasa kalau adik atau saudara ppuan kamu yg kena buat gitu kamu nda kasi ketawa tu..tu sja la sy mo ckp...
hehe...
jaga kau wel..suda sy sound sana jgn kasi main2 kan..hehe
mcmna billionare naik mututut sja wel? hehe tapi kalaupun dia sekaya mana..tp perangai ada gaya mcm serial rapist or killer sy nda mau la..bgs lagi sy miskin saturang...hahah
dia sinta sejati dalam debu ba tu claire..5 thn dia menanti ko..ko inda teharu...sinta borgenvilla ba ni bilang spring..
manatau dia test2 ko..sekali dia pakai tuping..buka tuping anak arab sampur dusun..hahaha..ensem kenen..kaya lg..adada..jan ko memilih..5th penantian dia tu...terima la dia..hehe....
adei..yg mcmni pny gaya la ni sy tia tahan..puas sda sy dgr org ckp mcm kau ckp ni wel...bgs satu kali kamu kena gitu..ppuan ikut2 kamu yg ada masalah mental pny baru kamu tau perasaan dia mcmna...
ahaha..ya la..susa jg tu kan..entah o claire..sia pun inda dapat imagine ni kalu mcm tu....ada bgs ada buruk dia jg.....ada jg stalker d area ko kan....apa la kejadian dia sekarang...ok la ba tu..suda buat report..heharap dia inda buat hal la..dont drive alone k..dingar tu claire...
apa bgs dia???? cuba bg sy satu!
hehe..nda la ba mau temper sm kau pla skg..jgn sja la ba kasi main2 lagi k...
ya la..hopefully dia nda buat apa2..kalau ya kau menyesal tu nti kau kasi main2 skg...naaa
teda kawan sy drive ba slalu..tapi berhati2 la sda ni...huhu
ko dingar sja sakap sia ba claire..jan ko drive sturang selalu la....suda buat riput harap2 dia sedar la..dia ensem kaya ka tp bukan jodoh mana buli paksa..
suka ko menemper kan sama sia..leks ko..ko kana agak tiap2 hari la ni kan....bgs p kasi hidup la tu nit nut ko d kereta....
hehe...kau lagi kana temper? hehe
mm...tp kalau kasi hidup tu nit nut pun teda kaitan jg kalau dia mau kacau pun
ada...nanti ko belari kenen..ingat suda buka pintu..sekali..belum..sebab teda nit nut ko..haha..ada tu jual alarm d 7e ka...kalu ko rasa macam kana urat2..ko kasi bunyi sja tu..kuat tu bunyi dia...nyaring kalu ko taru d telinga ko buli tuli jg la..hehe..so better ada satu tu...atau ko bawa2 parang..gagamas ka..apa sja la.
ala claire sry sy terjoke plak....hehe....oh begitu plak crita dia.....pny pyscho tu.....nda faham bahasa betul....sinta karas tp nda ngam cara dia.....bikin susah kehidupan saja. klu sy mungkin sy panggil gengster pukul dia spy dia berenti mengacau...bah hati2 la kau...takut dia hilang kawalan saja...
solution? nah lantik la c wel sbg bodigad.....:P
hahahha...buat apa taru d telinga..terpaksa la sy concentrate tgk lampu berkelip ni sementara..1 kali kunci..2 kali buka...haha
sy bawa parang sja la..
tp mmg la..sy terfikir sda ni mau letak apa2 utk safety di dlm kreta la...sepa tau kan..precaution
nda la sweetie...kalau kau sy mmg tia pandai marah..hehe
kalau tempat sendiri senang ba..ramai kawan buli ja tlg p pukul..huhu tp d cni ni..bahaya jg kn sendiri2..
sy suda baca ni post since pagi 12/11 ba claire,but sy nda mampu mau kasi comment on the spot coz tiba2 byk keja ni,luarbiasa betul. sy pun suda plan apa mau cakap tp lepas tgk ko punya 18 comments ni,sy rasa ko ok2 la suda sikit kan,byk input suda.
Mmg dia obses gila la sama ko claire,sungguh bikin takut. ko mmg perlu ada pepper spray ni tau. kalau ko ada chance kasi kena dia,ada jg dia 'buta' for 15-20mins tu. nah,time tu biar dia rasa la betapa tseksa kena tu spray. kalau ko mau lagi sandi,ko pg cari botol spray n isi dgn clorox. kasi double spray. kalau ko ada lagi tu racun rumpai,kasi triple spray.kasi dia rasa smua.
kalau mau bawa parang pun bole,but it's u against the opposite sex ba, physical advantage is on him. so better dont take the risk. better use chemicals. even cuka dirumah pun bole jadi senjata tau,tp mcm x ngam la dgn ur case..haha..sy mmg bole bikin kedai senjata kimia sd ni tau.
harap2 teda underage yg read blog ko la claire. nti suka2 dorang pg spray budak2 dgn clorox. si mell f yg ajar kenen. mati la..haha
Claire..sia rasa kan dia kalau bukan gila seks nie mesti angau ne... dan bla...bla...bla.... tu yang negatif...dari segi positifnya...mmhh... ini menunjukkan ko ada tarikan ne..nda taula dari segi apa... tpi one thing 4 sure mesti adalah dia nampak tu....yang gila butu tu napa pula dia sangka ko ne lemah... dia bulum kanal lagi ko sepa...ingat mau turut saja kehendak dia..
Keteh...ngam tu claire sekurang-kurangnya bila ada police report...lain kali kalau ko ada apa2 diala yg kana tu... baru dia tau..budu sumbung...
sabar sja ko... tapi yg penting jan kc nampak ko takut sangat sama dia.. ko mesti tunjukkan ko leh hadapi dia baru dia kana psyco sket...
wahahaha..punya byk suda input ko ni claire..tp sia mau tambah jg..kasi kempes sikit tu yg d depan......jan kasi menonjol..depan si aguk buli la.....tips ka apa ni sia pun inda tau la..tp sebab tu kali dia makin obses kan claire..dulu lain sekarang lain ba dia tinggu tu...bukan joke kama ni..reality show ni...
be more extra kful la k.....
Ko baru mau bagitau sekarang ni masalah ko kah? apa yg ko malu bah kana kasi main2, paduli lah... bahaya tau tuh claire.... susah jugalah kalau ko tpksa lagi pusing2 ni inda mau balik rumah.... mimang tension labah sia bilang....
kalau sia tuh kan, lama sudah sia langgar tu urg kalau mau ikut2 sia. ko pura2 jalan pi jambatan yg ada sungai.... separuh jalan, bah ko reverse ja....
Tapi yg paling bagus ko buat report polis lah.... sia inda tau kalau tu pulis mau betindak, tapi cuba ko cari pertubuhan lain2... yg melindungi wanita punya.
jan biar dia tau di mana ko tinggal.... sudahlah kamu dua urg ja di sana. maka ko kena bejaga2 juga. teda guna tuh marah urg mcm tuh. makin dia suka tuh sa rasa.
seperti kawan2 yg lain, sia cuma mau cakap be extra careful, dan pls sms dia yg ko sudah buat laporan polis. Kalau bulih, ko pun kena selidik siapa dia, siapa parents dia, apa no hp parents dia, atau tempat kerja dia....
Then ko gunakanlah telepon untuk call parent dia ka... binatang punya urg
Cuba ko bagi sia no hp dia, atau email atau friendster dia.... sia try kacau dia dulu.... biar dia rasa apa rasa kana harrassment
hahahhaha....lett ba...funny ba kau..sy btl2 mau kasi kau no ni..jaga kalau kau nda harass dia btl2...sy bukan malu kena kasi main2..sy tension..smpi nangis ba sy dlu coursemate sy kasi main2 psl tu..tu la sy malas mau ckp...isk isk nsb tu pulis nda kasi main2 ms sy bgtau..kalau nda..sy marah la durang tu...huhu sy ada terfikir tu yg mcm women rights ka apa pny pertubuhan ba...sb durang mesti lagi faham kn..tp nda tau mana mau cari..
wel...teda kaitan tu sm yg di depan...pakai uniform jg pun..rata ja nampak..
Nit..susah jg mau kasi nampak berani kalau mmg suda bikin takut ba tu urang...mmg tu pulis pun ada ckp ba, kalau mcm dia buat lagi ikut2 tu..kalau sy call durang, kalau durang dpt tangkap trus bw p balai la..keteh la dia..nsb kemarin teda dia p menunggu d simpang2 lg...kdg2 sy tgk2 dlu sekeliling tu sblm kluar dr gate tempat keja, nda tau mana jg dia bersembunyi, skali sy kluar skit sda, ada sda dia sana mengekori di belakang..punya la kin lemah jantung...sakit ati sy ni..
mell...mmg kau buli buka kedai senjata kimia la...sgt berjaya lagi..sy mau joint venture k...hehe
sy mau p beli la sda ni lepas ni..ada tu jual d watson kan..mm...fikir2 kan..btl jg la..dia pandai mau p ketuk2 tu cermin kreta kan..sy kasi turun skit biar dia kasi dakat tu muka dia yg hideous then sy spray!!! tada!! good...good...nti kalau terpaksa sda sy buat gitu...lagipun kalau mau pakai parang nti ada tuduhan membunuh atau kasi luka org pla..nda mau la...hrp2 teda underage la baca ni mell....;D
Thank you so much k for all the advice, input & care.....;) it really makes me feel much better...i'll be extra careful from now on...mmm
I think this is serious...u kenal kan this guy? kalau u kenal dan boleh ingat wajah dia mudah.it's a right action to make a police report.Dont worry too much k my dear.Just beware je.make sure u jgn stop your car in fron of him or try to talk with him alone.next time u bring a camera and try to catch his photo...u take care dear..i wish i could DOWN this guy..God Be with You..
;) Thanks charlie for the concern...yeah..i wish u could DOWN the guy or whatever terms is it nowadays so that i can go on with my life peacefully.. I would not..ever..talk to him alone...
AdeIh!!! BacA seMuA InPuT sInI MaCaM KaT BorneO DaH aIiH..
No ComMeNt DaH..SeMua DaH DiORaNG BaGItAu..KeDaI CheMicAl La aPA La..
TaPi I KnoW ThIs AsShOle!! La AcTuaLLy..DuLu DiA TaKut Jg Ka SaMA aBg aa ClaIre?!!
TaPi SaPA Tu WeL Ka? Yg AyAt "dia sinta sejati dalam debu ba tu"..tergeLaK jUga La SorAng2...
HuH..DeBu2 Apo??!! ahahha...
So Take CaRe La..bLaCk PePPer SpRaY Tu MmG MusTaJab La RasAnyA...KeNa MaTa KaLu..MaKBuL!!
hahahahha...abg terasa mcm berada di sabah ka skijap..keh keh keh
claire rasa dia nda takut la sm abg tu...dlu dia mau lawan2 cakap lagi kan..hihi
si wel tu mmg sot....sinta sejati yg berdebu sja dia ingat..wakaka
nti claire beli la sda ni pepper spray btl2...hehe
siapa tu uang claire? sia kasi rasa dia tumbukan gaban!
ya kan...sy rasa kalau kau yg tumbuk trus pingsan tu urang kn..aishhh mmm...bgs kita plan ni kali kasi jumpa d mana2..trus kau corner dia trus marah trus pukul kuat2...hehe ada tu nama dia sana report tu jew..ada sy explain jg ni comment di atas2...
jumpa trus tiapayah cakap banyak...pukul dulu baru kasi tau apa kesalahan dia...jan lupa taruh gambar berukukuran passport dia ah sbb sia tia buli tau juga kalau setakat nama sj...apapun, u take good care of urself..mesti mau xtra careful k...kalau betul2 ada masalah, sebut nama sia 3x dan tunjuk jari tengah kepada pemangsa lepas tu dial num hp sia..gerenti sia akan datang membantu..
wah baru sia terbaca ni, kira lambat sudah. tp take extra precaution claire. Ish urg mcm ni inda paham bahasa, ko kasi dia bahasa tangan / pepper spray spt komone2 di atas baru dia mengerti mungkali. ataupun klu dia katuk cermin ko..ko kasi bunyi hon kereta lepas tu pekik..tolong perogol2!!!! / pencuri!!! dsb..take care claire..
sebut nama kau 3x laa jew....cis..mmm kan bgs kalau dekat2 sama kamu..dia takut jg tu sy rasa nampak kau..sy teda gmbr dia jew..tenampak dia d jalanan sja pun sy geli dan menyampah...de'ei..budu pny urang..tia tau malu...tensen pla sy skijap..aishhh
Joy, tu la ba..ckp2 nda pandai fhm bahasa..pernah jg la sy hon dia satu kali tu hari berabis..lari ba jg dia..tp p jauh2 skit sja..msh lg mengekori..pathetic btl ni lelaki oo saya rasa...mau ckp dia bgtu, tia tau dia fhm ka nda english tu..budu pny urang..adei...
super stupid guy, ada juga sa pernah encounter manusia macam ni tapi nasib baik la dia teda sampai pi bubut macam kes kau.tapi i agree la memang stress ni kalo ada manusia macam ni. lagi2 yang babal nda paham bahasa. mimang sah sinting kali tu stalker ko tu.
ngam la tu ko buat laporan polis, we never know apa yang bulih jadi kan, so better ada precaution.
mmg sinting la btl2 ni org sy rasa jg joan..yg mcmna pun kau ckp nda pandai phm bahasa ni...mcm tiada sm dia..mmg bikin panas sm bikin sakit jiwa la..ntah mana jg ni org letak kemaluan dia..di dahi kali tu la nda pandai malu..adei..
dats y la tu joan..nda la mau tunggu smpi ada apa2 baru menyesal kn..huhu
Since you are so far away, i can only pray for your safety and wellness there. Take heed of what fellow friends had advised. Don't ever agree to meet him even for explaining or clarifying your stand to him. Your action is enough to show him that you hate him so much.
Satu orang kawan sya pernah harrass begitu. Terkejar-kejar tu lelaki sm dia. Sudah beristeri baitu orang tp masih mau menekel kawan sya tu. One day tu lelaki bawa dia pi minum di satu kantin and kawan sya agree sbb dia berhasrat untuk menolak scr baik cinta tu orang. Sekali lepas tu, tu kawan sya asyik teringat-ingat pula tu lalaki smpi dia sendiri yang pigi telefon tu lelaki. Menurut kawan sya tu, dia akan merindui sangat2 tu lelaki kalau satu hari tidak dengar suara dia... check pya check rupa2nya kana pugai masa keluar minum tu. Syukurlah sdh dilepas lepas tu.
So Claire darling, take good care of yourself ah. Jgn sesekali biar tu lalaki pi sentuh ko, tenung mata ko atau kalau dia kasih ko makanan, jgn makan kama walau mcm mana iklas dia bagi. Bahaya tu...
God bless you and protects you from all unwanted behavior from that stupid guy.
hehehe..thanks oiga..;) tu la ba sy takut tu...jgn sja dia pakai guna2..tp menurut recent update...dia telah memasuki blog sy ni dan ternampak dan terbaca semua ni komen2 kamu..trus dia msg la bgtau..."ya la...sy faham bahasa la..i'm not stupid"
then smpi skg nda sda dia kacau sy..hopefully forever la..thanks all for your killer comments....hehehhehehehehehhehe
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