What we talked about

Him: I envy you having much more time to relax. You can re organize your life...doing this and that...

Me: Yeah..i guess so..but it's a no pay leave. Gonna hurt at the end of the month. No one would envy that. It's bugging me & now i'm kind of tired with all the stuff in my head.

Him: Money is important i agree, but not everything. When you worry too much about it, it becomes another problem..which is why i'm happy if i have more, but when i have less, it does not become an issue. Sound ridiculous yeah.. but when you are happy with your life, everything else becomes secondary.

Me: Right.

Him: Okay..i know it sounds corny and shitty, but that's life. Basically i think you are missing something in your life. Whatever that is, you need to go out and find it. Just like sex, it can be really good if you really try...otherwise, it's just like any other stuff, like breathing and existing.

Me: Now, what's sex have to do with any of this...[giggling]

Him: It's just an example...[laughing]

Me: You know, i'm tired of trying so hard. I don't want to try, i just want to sit here & let it come to me. Whatever it is. [smiling]

Him: At some point, you still have to make the move. It's all about timing.

Me: Yeah. i guess.

Wisdom

You gain strength, courage, and confidence by each experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, “I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.”

You must do the thing you think you cannot do. Develop interest in life as you see it; in people, things, literature, music -- the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people.

Remember, happiness does not depend upon who you are or what you have, it depend solely upon what you think. Many people think that if they were only in some other place, or had some other job, they would be happy. Well, that is doubtful. So get as much happiness out of what you are doing as you can and don't put off being happy until some future date.

We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it. Do not think that love in order to be genuine has to be extraordinary. What we need is to love without getting tired. Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.

Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.


List of great quote from extraordinary people in which i put & write in my note book & go through once in a while for me to always remember the influence & good thing a mere words can do to my life.

Snatch

Two guys tried to snatch my hand bag from inside the car today.

Ok la..here's what happen.

I walked out from the house at 7.50am in the morning. When i reach the gate i noticed 2 guys riding a motorbike pass in front of the house, practically in front of me lah and they were looking at me, i looked at them too...without feeling suspicious of course.

Then i walked to my car at the other side of the road and get into it as usual...and also as usual, i did not started the car right away & put my hand bag & things into place first. Then i thought i saw the motorbike coming towards the car again from the side mirror so i looked back & yes they were riding back to me...and i don't know...i just looked...and looked at them getting nearer...and made a u turn very close to the side mirror & then i knew something was not right & it's going to happen any minute...

The other guy sitting at the back opened the back door first & realize that i did not put the bag there but at the passenger seat instead...so they inch back & tried to open that door then...but at that time, i was already grabbing my hand back & was screaming like i never scream before while i was getting out from the car...

So they took off because they did not get the bag as they intended to...but i like to think that maybe it was my screaming vibrating so loud & kind of blew them away....like one of those superheroes in the movies.

So that was it. Nothing taken..no injuries...just a bit shaken...lesson learned.

I'm very much okay now. Still feeling some kind of phobia hearing a sound of a motorcycle tho.

The end. Thank you.

Character

PAS WON! THE PEOPLE WON! YEAY!

I've been very very excited keeping up with the updates on what's been going on with the KT's by-election the whole day....

and........we win!!! yeaaa!!! hihihi...i can't stop myself from grinning and talking about it for the entire day....

How i wish i was there among the other blogger & supporters of PR for the campaign & the taste of victory together...... A big Thank You to all of those who come down to KT just for the support & campaign...and of course to KT's folks for voting on behalf of Bangsa Malaysia! You have made the Rakyat's voice to be heard & that has made all the difference....

Just look at the man with pure big heart & i'm overwhelmed with emotion too... (source:http://eechia.blogspot.com/)

Pictures & news & articles can be found at links below.....

http://eechia.blogspot.com/
http://mt.m2day.org/
http://www.malaysiakini.com/
http://zorro-zorro-unmasked.blogspot.com/
http://sloone.wordpress.com/2009/01/17/pas-won-by-2616-unofficial/

Cheers!!!!!

Age Of A Woman

Between the ages of 15 - 20 A woman is like Sabah.
She is half discovered, half wild.

Between the ages of 20 - 30 A woman is like Putrajaya, fully discovered and scientifically perfect.

Between the ages of 30 - 35 She is like Kelantan, very hot, wise and beautiful.

Between the ages of 35 - 40 A woman is like Johore.
She is half destroyed but still desirable.

Between the ages of 40 - 50 She is like Kuala Lumpur,
Old but still got hope.

Between the ages of 50 - 60 She is like Sarawak, very wide, very quiet but nobody goes there.

Between the ages of 60 - 70 A woman is like Malacca,
With glorious past but no future.

This Year

Just when i thought it's about time i spend some time & reflect my year of 2008, i had a rough start for the early days in 2009. For now, i guess my new year resolution would be quite simple and i got just the word to describe it.

Thrifty.

I spent quite a sum of money on unnecessary things during the Christmas celebration last year & there's not much left by the time to start a whole new year here in Penang. It would not be so much as a problem to me if everything else is normal & no drastic or immediate changes are going to happen. How wrong i was.

I received an email today from the management that for this month of January, all of the employee would have to take 5days (2nd, 12th, 28th, 29th and 30th January 2009) compulsory no pay leave in result of the low production & unclear orders from customers. For that kind of money worth, i can buy each of you bloggers a pair of matching pink skirt. That's how upset i am.

Professionally, i understand the circumstances & if it were my very own company i would have made the same decision. Nevertheless, understanding does not brush aside the fact that i'm unhappy & worried.

So, just incase the same thing happen for next month & the month after, i decided to set my mind on one thing only. That is to save as much money as i can get everyday.

1. No more happy hours every weekend unless it's free.
2. No more unnecessary shopping.
3. No more branded product.
4. Staying true to my word on the investment plan.
5. Read more books = staying more at home.
6. Keep fit & toned = pay less for food + it's a joint resolution with Mell to look like Elle or Alba by the end of this year... wink2
7. Stop bad habits...biar la rahsia apa dia...hehe
8. Keeping my feet on the ground as often as i can.
9. Love more, laugh often, smile everyday & live life less seriously. It's cheaper.
10. Last year lists of failed attempt........

What do you think? ;) It does not look too bad to me. As long as i don't lose my crazy side & dreamy moments...i'm content in my own free world. Ceria ba sy...hahaha

I'm single. I'm young. And i'm beautiful.
What's so good about that? Flirting is a hobby. [hihihi]

Good day everyone.....yeay~! hehe

p/s see how quick i can change my mood...by the end of the post, i'm all smiley smile again....hehe

Yesterday Once More

Still on last year story...just to share my best final & closing moments to remember of the year 2008. My high school reunion on 19 to 21 Dec at Beringgis Beach Resort with the theme 'Yesterday Once More'.

on 20th....

One word to describe the reunion.
Awesome.

Some seems like they never left high school & a few look ideal for another transformers movie. hehe.. It feels really really great seeing each other again & reminisce the old good times together.

with Nina & Lina

19 Dec - most of us went to the swimming pool to relax first and actually played pool basketball. :D Then we had dinner together that night followed by a karaoke session. Memang masih macam kanak-kanak ribena la kamu semua...haha mula2 semua masing2 kasi kluar bakat terpendam... sgt sporting lg..then last2 semua org menyanyi beramai2, menari poco2 then ada cubaan menari dangdut tp tu lagu 'madu' nda ketahanan utk didengari sebab nda pandai habis tu 'maduuu....maduuu...' hahahha

20 Dec - keesokan harinya, pada awal pagi kami turun ke padang yg berhadapan dengan pantai untuk sesi games...mmg ini la part paling best sy rasa...kamu bygkan sja la games terompah gergasi, berlari dalam karung, bergerak dlm hula hoop, bawa bola ping pong dlm sudu then yg paling funny...sambung2 benda smpi sepa plg panjang...tali pinggang semua kena buka, tali kasut..apa tali lg...cermin mata pun kena kasi baris...skit lagi ada cubaan mau kasi kluar bra...hahha then sepa yg ngam2 ada rokok dlm poket, mcmna jg nda panjang kalau tiap satu (baru lg) batang rokok tu kena kasi kluar sambung2....hahaha then habis sda barang2...sambung badan setiap ahli kumpulan lagi...berabis la stretch mana2 yg patut di stretch...hahah sepa ada ahli grup yg tinggi untung la..abis semua...team sy menang juara keseluruhan...hehe

Petangnya, another games, futsal & volleyball....campur2 sja main..mmg ketawa lebih la..yg penting best...hehe Malamnya, we had a bbq...initially we were imagining the bbq to be somewhat casual & ada kipas mengipas ayam atau kambing atau apa2 haiwan d sana...sekali nya, makanan sda disediakan, dinner formal..tu nama makanan sja pula bbq..bukan tu kejadian...mcmna pun...semua org tetap sporting dan malam itu mmg satu kenangan terindah utk semua...pelbaai confession di buat....hahaha luahan perasaan...dan sharing kenangan paling lucu masa skolah...one best thing to be in a boarding school is that you share almost everything together & you are very close...jadi kenangan2 mmg sgt byk dan bermakna.

21 Dec - All were leaving one by one....those from Labuan were the first to go as they have a long journey ahead. Followed by us which live around KK then those who will be going back to KL... acara peluk memeluk dan kisas2 berlaku lah pada hari itu...hehe semua org berjanji akan turut serta lagi pada reunion akan datang dan pelbagai janji dilemparkan seperti 'nti tahun dpn pny..bersama laki/bini sda aku ni'...atau...'clarice, nti tahun dpn aku mau tgk kau lagi sexy dari ni ok...mcm jessica alba..' (nda guna pny Mail..mentang2 aku gemuk..haha) dan byk lagi la janji2 manis semua org...hehe

Everyone fill in the reunion gold book for anything they wanna say and their details on that particular reunion & those in which status are 'desperate single', 'it's complicated' or 'single and very much available'....hopefully for the next reunion the status will improve...hehe

Thanks guys....biarpun utk cubaan pertama kali reunion ini hanya dlm 20 lbh org yg dpt turut serta (out of 80+ of us in total) dan ada yg hanya dpt dtg separuh hari shj...it was the best thing that happened to me for the year 2008....i miss you guys already...tsk tsk


p/s i'll update the pics later ;)